There is a fine line between self-care and self-sabotage. In today’s episode of Lessons in Leadership, leadership expert and founder of LearnToLead, Dave Anderson, discusses how misinterpreting self-care can unintentionally derail both professional and personal life.
Self-care has become a popular buzzword, with more people recognizing the importance of safeguarding their mental wellness. However, Anderson warns that without the proper perspective, what is intended as self-care can easily turn into self-sabotage.
Too often, people confuse self-care with avoiding stress at all costs. They may start doing the bare minimum at work, thinking this behavior protects them from anxiety or burnout. But this approach can backfire, leading to underachievement and mounting concerns over performance, finances and job security. The very stress they hoped to avoid ends up multiplying, creating a cycle that is far from self-care.
Anderson stresses the need to redefine self-care. True self-care is about creating stability and peace of mind, which includes being financially responsible and fully engaged at work.
"The best self-care is being debt-free. Go all in while you're at work. Give it all you have so you can leave work, have a life. When all your bills are paid, that stress and anxiety are gone."
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By committing fully to work and responsibilities, people can experience true relief and mental wellness outside of the workplace, rather than allowing avoidance to create long-term and financially risky problems.
Self-care is essential, but framing it in the proper context matters. When practiced correctly, it supports personal growth, career advancement, financial stability and unwavering self-confidence. When misapplied, it can quietly—and rapidly—transform into self-sabotage.
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